So I went to talk with an Army recruiter and everything was great. At the end when he wanted to gauge my interest level, I said 85%-90%. As we talked about, enlisting would be a year away for once I graduated and I just needed time to fully come to terms with it. We promised to stay in contact once a month and to reach out once I’m about to graduate.
For some reason he wanted me to talk with his supervisor because I wasn’t 100% convinced. I go in and it’s a mess. She’s like asking very invasive, probing questions, almost like trying to find a weak spot in me. She was giving me heat why I didn’t do ROTC in college……when I was mostly interested in enlisting. She also was deterring me from doing any other research with the other branches.
At one point I said “should of, could of, would have, what are you trying to get at?” I looked her dead in the eye, and she got beet red. She accused me of raising my voice, and that i disrespected her. I for a fact didn’t raise my voice, but I did start talking a little more faster and was being very direct. Regardless.
Will I be blacklisted???
Edit: thank you to everyone who has responded. The responses have been grounding and motivating. I felt pretty bad about the altercation
